What True Dog Handlers Know
Every true dog handler (and I believe there is a distinct difference of innate ability, knowledge, and competence between a dog handler and dog trainer) knows that no two dogs are alike. You can't train them exactly the same-their specific needs, responses, behavioral patterns and a myriad of other factors come into play each and every time you deal with them. All obedience is a form of behavior modification. For the owner, the dog, and the handler. ALL good obedience training is primarily psychological and good communication. All true dog handlers will quickly admit there is not one single, "right" way to train a dog. There are many ways. All true dog handlers will admit that they are constantly learning new ways to train dogs. All true dog handlers will tell you that to accept only one method of training is to insure that many dogs will not succeed and many owners will not be totally happy. All true dog handlers admit that there is only one WRONG way to train a dog--the one that destroys enthusiasm for life, causes the owner and/or others to dislike a dog due to its behavior or misbehavior, and a method which frustrates either, or both, the dog and owner.
Every true dog handler knows that dogs function by certain truisms. These are; One of us is the leader. (Either you are clearly in charge, or the dog is. Leadership can be achieved by a variety of methods.) Dogs don't negotiate. (Dogs don't sit around working out problems by negotiations in the classic sense. Rules are rules. If a rule is broken there is a clear and understood consequence for the offense.) Dogs don't bribe each other for desired behavior, nor do they offer a treat for desired behavior. (I've seen forms of "flirting"/play enticement, but never bribery). Dogs use clear forms of punishment when misbehavior occurs despite a warning. (Punishment can be in the form of physical chastisement, ignoring the offender, up to shunning for select periods of time.) Dogs don't take weeks to teach another dog how to behave. (This lesson in manners is quickly and efficiently imparted as the harmony and security within the pack, both for the offender as well as the other members, is totally destroyed if it is not.) Good behavior is rewarded with emotional and physical interaction with pack members (NOT with food treats.) Why is that human trainers are so against using the forms of communication that dogs inherently know and understand? Because many don't see them, or cannot correctly communicate them. True dog handlers will go to great lengths to help an owner see, understand and master correct timing and communication--the happiness, well-being and improved, long-term relationship between owner and dog is important to a true dog handler.
